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Staying strong in hard times....



This week has been very challenging for me.

Glad to be sharing my poetry with you all! xxx, Vasia @psvasia

I have had to make some tough decisions. I have learned that I can stand up for myself and that I need to stand up for myself. I have always had a hard time standing up for myself, I have always felt like I can't do anything on my own and that I need the help from other people. Although for the past few weeks I have realized that I need to be able to be on my own and not feel like I can't do anything without the help of other people. I have always been a people pleaser and I know that I need to do what is best for me. I always feel like I have to put my best face forward and try to hide my real feelings from the world. But you can only take so much before it becomes too draining on your soul and mental state. I have had to do a lot of soul searching and I feel like I have grown. Sometimes what we think is the best thing for us turns out to be a stepping stone in becoming the best person you can be. I do know that with whatever situation you may be in sometimes you just have to step back and take a look at the bigger picture to know what is best for YOU!!

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  1. UnknownAugust 21, 2017 at 8:06 AM

    I know how hard it is at times to carry on or to try a new thing and get streght for it. I myself are feeling like that at this point of my life and i'm so eager for a change. you are totally right and thank you for your words :)

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